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I Want to Be Alone After Rough Sex. Is that Normal?

I Want to Be Alone After Rough Sex. Is that Normal?

There is a plethora of ways one can have intercourse, ranging from regular boy-on-girl sex to fun times resulting from cougar and BBW dating hookups. And while there are things most people prefer (missionary position and oral sex, we’re looking at you!), there are also certain ways to have sex that aren’t that common. That’s because everyone enjoys different dynamics when it comes to having sex. In that regard, we wanted to talk about rough sex, the inescapable feeling that some people who practice it experience quite often and if having that feeling is normal. Psyche Meets Physical Needs Our ...

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How to Lose Gag Reflex?

How to Lose Gag Reflex?

Talking about oral sex, we can’t help but mention numerous obstacles that might come in its way – she might not be into it, he might not into be it, or the one that’s supposed to perform oral sex might have a strong gag reflex. Speaking of latter, it doesn’t matter if we’re talking girl-on-guy, gay or BBW dating, it can still create a lot of problems when it comes to fellatio. It’s no secret that a lot of people have a gag reflex while some of them even ‘suffer’ from its hypersensitive form. In any case, it’s a nuisance, ...

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My Partner Has a Kink I Can’t Handle: What Now?

My Partner Has a Kink I Can’t Handle: What Now?

For some people, being with a partner who’s vanilla is a deal-breaker. They regard their sexuality as a very important part of their life and aren’t prepared to invest any time and effort into a relationship where they can’t find fulfillment. On the other hand, if you’re the person who can’t handle someone’s kink, it’s only natural to feel inadequate to meet the needs of someone you care about or to feel pressured to do things that are too far outside of your comfort zone, such as perhaps transgender dating and threesomes, and you’d feel much better if that person ...

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First Threesomes – How Can You Prepare Yourself?

First Threesomes – How Can You Prepare Yourself?

Threesomes have been many people’s fantasy, regardless of their sexual preference. From straight and gay to singles who are into BBW dating, everyone has at least dreamed of being with more than one person in bed at the same time. However, only a few of us had a chance to fulfill such a fantasy. Now, if you’re thinking about being in a threesome or you actually have an opportunity for it but are not sure if you’re up for it, you’ll appreciate this list of tips and tricks that will help you prepare for one such experience.   The Threesomes ...

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Roles In BDSM: What Makes A Good Submissive?

Roles In BDSM: What Makes A Good Submissive?

As you probably know, some people like to be dominant and others enjoy being submissive. It really doesn’t matter if you’re in bed with a young woman, middle-aged man, or a gorgeous mature woman from the cougar dating scene; there will always be one side that is dominant and other that is submissive. If you enjoy being the latter, we suggest you stick around because we’re going to talk about the things you need to do if you want to be a great sub. Get on the Same Page with Your Partner Firstly, you need to have the talk with ...

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Is BDSM Healthy or Pathological?

Is BDSM Healthy or Pathological?

Let’s face it – BDSM and kink has been a regular part of everyday life for a while now. From group sex and swingers to BBW and transgender dating, being kinky isn’t as looked down on as it was, for example, two or three decades ago. However, there’s still some prejudice regarding the main honcho of the kinky world. BDSM, which stands for bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, and masochism is sometimes still being scrutinized as a condition rather than a sexual preference. In that name, let’s try to answer the question of whether BDSM is healthy or pathological. Subject ...

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Roles in BDSM: What Makes a Good Dominatrix?

Roles in BDSM: What Makes a Good Dominatrix?

If you’re reading this blog, chances are you’ve already heard of BDSM and a Dominatrix and know what it is. So, you probably have this idea of BDSM being as kinky as, for example, BBW dating, but also involving chains, whips, ropes, leather straps, gimp suits, and more. And while you wouldn’t be wrong to assume that, BDSM isn’t only limited to what we’ve mentioned above. On the contrary, there are quite a few important aspects of this sexual lifestyle, one of which suggests assuming roles in the goal of power exchange. That said, let’s take a quick look at ...

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Top 5 BDSM Podcasts You Have to Listen to

Top 5 BDSM Podcasts You Have to Listen to

Are you unsure whether BDSM is for you? Do you have a hard time determining if ropes, chains, and whips are going to suit you better than, for example, BBW dating? Were you thinking about becoming a dominatrix but didn’t really know where to begin? Luckily, these and all other BDSM-related questions can be easily answered – all thanks to podcasts. Podcasts are a great way to educate yourself on a number of topics while sometimes even laughing your ass off or listening to hot stories. This especially applies to BDSM podcasts, of which we’ve picked the top 5 you ...

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Is It Non-consensual To Wake Up Your Partner With Oral Sex?

Is It Non-consensual To Wake Up Your Partner With Oral Sex?

When it comes to sex, pretty much anything goes if two people talk about it openly and honestly. The issue of consent is essential if they don’t know each other well or if they’re contemplating introducing something new into the bedroom. Today, we touch on popular male fantasy, being woken up by oral sex, and whether consent comes into play in any way. In most cases, the answer is pretty straightforward, and it doesn’t depend on the people or the situation. No, it’s not non-consensual to wake up your partner with oral sex. Further, singles who like to meet people ...

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