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First Threesomes – How Can You Prepare Yourself?

First Threesomes – How Can You Prepare Yourself?

Threesomes have been many people’s fantasy, regardless of their sexual preference. From straight and gay to singles who are into BBW dating, everyone has at least dreamed of being with more than one person in bed at the same time. However, only a few of us had a chance to fulfill such a fantasy.

Now, if you’re thinking about being in a threesome or you actually have an opportunity for it but are not sure if you’re up for it, you’ll appreciate this list of tips and tricks that will help you prepare for one such experience.

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  1. The Threesomes Jealousy is Real

You probably think that more than two people in bed at one point can give way to jealousy – and you’d be right. This especially applies when two partners bring a third party into the bedroom in hopes of having a great time.

You have to understand that being jealous at seeing your partner enjoy someone other than you in a sexual way is unavoidable. This is meant to happen and it will happen, so all you have to do is embrace it and control your emotions. It’s ok to be jealous in this situation, but it’s also crucial that you don’t act out on jealousy.

 

  1. Ensure Everyone’s on the Same Page

The most important thing that needs to be taken care of doesn’t actually happen during the act, but before. Prior to engaging in any sexual activity with two more people, you simply have to make sure that everyone is 100% on the same page.

This is necessary if you want to create an opportunity for a good time. Setting boundaries and talking to each other to ensure everyone’s ready and willing is paramount. Otherwise, everything can easily turn into a fiasco.

 

  1. Rules are Meant to be Followed

While pop culture tells us threesomes are wild and uncontrollable, the reality is much different. And while there’s no denying that ménage à trois can be a pleasant experience, letting things happen without any restraints is also a risky business.

If you’re already sat down with the other two parties involved and managed to agree on certain rules and boundaries, you should also make sure that you are following them before, during and after the threesome. Differently put, three-ways are only possible when the communication channels are 100% open.

 

  1. Keep a Clear Mind

As we’ve mentioned before, threesomes usually happen in movies when at least one person involved is either hammered or brainwashed with drugs. In real life, however, this is highly unrecommended.

Remember all those boundaries, rules and emotions that need to be kept in check while in a threesome? Well, if you’ve wasted or can’t see straight because you’re being hopped up on ecstasy, you’ll have a very hard time controlling yourself since you’ll lose any inhibitions you’d normally have.

About Simon Blackthorne

Simon Blackthorne
Simon Blackthorne is a Dungeonmaster at Wasteland.com. With over 30 years experience as a MaleDom, he brings a wealth of experience, knowledge and wit to the BDSM scene. Simon was one of original directors and contributors to Wasteland starting in 1995 and is a respected leader in the New England BDSM community. You can see Simon's BDSM Video Demonstrations and Tutorials at Wasteland.com
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