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Here’s Everything You Need to Know about Findom

Here’s Everything You Need to Know about Findom

When it comes to sex, we all love different things. The thing that gets you off probably doesn’t work for someone else, and vice versa. Some people love young partners, other prefer women from the cougar dating scene, and some individuals are drawn by more complex sexual fetishes. Therefore, we’re going to talk about one of the most popular and expensive sexual fetishes out there – the financial domination fetish or findom.  

The Most Glamorous Fetish

As you probably know, most sexual fetishes are considered dirty and demeaning, especially those that include dominance and submission. Findom, on the other hand, is quite different. This interesting fetish is filled with glamour, money and expensive stuff.

What Is Financial Fetish Exactly?

Financial fetish has a pretty self-explanatory name, but its concept can be somewhat confusing to many men and women out there. Most, if not all fetishes out there, work on a quid-pro-quo basis. You give something to someone and that person does something for you in return. When it comes to financial domination, however, things are even simpler than that. Namely, a financial fetish is all about paying girls and giving them expansive gifts just to see them squeal with joy. It’s about paying women and expecting nothing in return. They don’t have to strip, dance, or satisfy your imagination in any other way. It’s about surrendering all of your power and money to them. It’s a form of a BDSM without any physical contact whatsoever because it’s all done online. This surrendering of power is what gets these men off.

The Various Forms Of Findom

As with many other sexual fetishes out there, this one also comes in many variations. For example, some men are interested in paying a girl only once or twice. This provides them with the adrenaline rush they need and then they quit. There are, of course, men who need to feel this submissive every day, so they send payments and gifts on a daily basis. Some of them even provide their domme with bank account information such as passwords and pin codes.

Why Does This Work For So Many Men Out There?

This is probably the most common question about findom. Why does it work for so many men? Well, guys who enjoy this fetish say that the sexual arousal comes from the fact that an unknown dominant woman has a complete control over their most prized possessions and their money. All in all, this is undoubtedly one of the strangest forms of BDSM on the market at the moment. However, at the same time, it’s one of the easiest fetishes to enjoy, as it requires no physical contact. It can be done from the comfort of your bedroom via a computer. All you need, of course, is a big bank account.


About Simon Blackthorne

Simon Blackthorne is a Dungeonmaster at Wasteland.com. With over 30 years experience as a MaleDom, he brings a wealth of experience, knowledge and wit to the BDSM scene. Simon was one of original directors and contributors to Wasteland starting in 1995 and is a respected leader in the New England BDSM community. You can see Simon's BDSM Video Demonstrations and Tutorials at Wasteland.com
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