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Glossary of BDSM Terms – The Letter D is for Deviant

Glossary of BDSM Terms – The Letter D is for Deviant

This part of Wastelandblog.com is for anyone getting ready to take their first bite of the forbidden fruit. The world of bdsm can at times seem a bit scary, or silly, at first and while it can be both it isn’t always either. Sometimes it’s the way to intense and amazing experiences and relationships. If you’ve heard some bdsm expression that puzzles you, or you just want to browse a little, a good place to start is with our own ‘glossary of bdsm words’ and our ‘illustrated guide to bdsm’. These are helpful for quickly finding out what a word or expression means (in the glossary), or delving a little deeper for more details. We’ve also added some Wasteland.com original photos to each section just to make it a bit more visually pleasing to the eye.

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letter D is for deviantToday’s Letter is “D”

Dental Dams – are most commonly just a latex barrier used for cunnilingus (pussy-licking) or anilingus (ass-licking) to prevent the transmission of disease.
Deviant – is the name for someone who diverges from the accepted standards, usually of sexual morality, is called a ‘deviant’.
Discipline – in the bdsm context means training your submissive to obey rules or a code of behaviour, using punishment to correct disobedience.
Dominance – is the exercise of power or influence over others. It can simply be role-play, where one partner is consensually empowered to ‘dominate’ while the other adopts the part of the submissive for the limited purpose of sexual games, or it can reflect deep-seated personality traits which influence life-style choices. Although the words ‘Dominant’ and its contraction, ‘Dom’ can refer to either gender they are most commonly reserved for men while a female dominant would be called a ‘Domme’, ‘Domina’, or ‘Dominatrix’. A person who enjoys playing both roles is called a ‘switch’

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Dominant – (or Dom) can, stricctly speaking, be used in a bdsm context for either gender to describe a person who enjoys exercising power and control over others, however these words are usually reserved for males while their female equivalent is usually called ‘domme’, ‘domina’ or ‘dominatrix’.

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Dominatrix – (or Domme or Domina) are the terms most often used in a bdsm context to describe a female who enjoys exercising power and control over others
D/s – is the abbreviation for domination and submission and is often spelled like this, with a capital (dominant) ‘D’ and a lower case (submissive) ‘s’. You will commonly find the same convention used in BDSM internet chat-rooms, where the Doms nick-names will start with an upper case letter and the submissives will use the lower case. In those circumstances it does no particular harm and its just a handy way of knowing people’s preferences.


D/s’ Relationship – describes an ongoing relationship where each partner has a recognised role, one being dominant while the other is submissive. This structured way of relating to each other can apply either just in their sex-life or more pervasively to some or all other aspects of their daily life-style.

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