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What Is Edging And How It’s Done Properly?

What Is Edging And How It’s Done Properly?

It doesn’t matter if you’re a young man in his prime or someone from the senior dating community, you’ve probably had your fair shares of premature ejaculations. Hey, there’s no need to be ashamed, it happens to every man on the planet! Besides erectile dysfunction, it’s probably the most common problem men experience in the bedroom. Now, a lot of guys are eager to try various medications that will allow them to last longer in bed, but they aren’t aware there is a cheaper and healthier technique that can help them postpone their orgasm. This technique is called “edging” and we’re going to explain how it’s done properly.

What Exactly Is Edging?

Edging is a natural way of postponing the orgasm so that you can have a more intense one later. Of course, both women and men are able to do this, but considering that premature ejaculation in men is a bigger problem, edging is clearly more popular with fellas.

What Are Its Benefits?

Postponing an orgasm may sound a bit confusing to people. The orgasm is the best part of sex, so why would you want to delay it? Well, more experienced lovers will say that sex is not a race. Crossing the finish line first often leaves your partner unsatisfied. That’s why you need to enjoy the journey before you reach your destination.

So, one benefit of edging is a longer love-making session that allows your partner to enjoy the intercourse and reach their own climax. Another important advantage of this technique is the more intense orgasm. Coming close to orgasm and then backing off will definitely make your ejaculation more intense once you actually decide to cum. Trust us; edging will provide you with some mind-blowing orgasms.

How To Do It Correctly?

First of all, you need to know that mastering the edging technique requires a lot of practice. If you can’t practice with your partner, masturbation will do just fine. Practicing the “stop and start” method is probably the best way for you to master this technique. Simply start masturbating and when you feel like you’re going to cum, stop! Wait for a couple of minutes and then start again. Do this until you feel like you have better control over your ejaculation process. You can also use Kegel exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor, or you can slow down your breathing and heart rate, which can also postpone the orgasm. Use all of these 3 methods during sex and you’ll manage to edge successfully.

The Risks Of Edging

You should know that there are no particular health risks and dangers when it comes to edging. However, these intense orgasms can become addictive, which means you will always want a long and intense love-making session. Now, even though this might be awesome for you, your partner will probably get bored and sore during those long sessions. So, make sure not to change your bedroom routines too much. Remember, you have to think about your partner too.


About Simon Blackthorne

Simon Blackthorne
Simon Blackthorne is a Dungeonmaster at Wasteland.com. With over 30 years experience as a MaleDom, he brings a wealth of experience, knowledge and wit to the BDSM scene. Simon was one of original directors and contributors to Wasteland starting in 1995 and is a respected leader in the New England BDSM community. You can see Simon's BDSM Video Demonstrations and Tutorials at Wasteland.com
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