This part of Wastelandblog.com is for anyone getting ready to take their first bite of the forbidden fruit. The world of bdsm can at times seem a bit scary, or silly, at first and while it can be both it isn’t always either. Sometimes it’s the way to intense and amazing experiences and relationships. If you’ve heard some bdsm expression that puzzles you, or you just want to browse a little, a good place to start is with our own ‘glossary of bdsm words’ and our ‘illustrated guide to bdsm’. These are helpful for quickly finding out what a word or expression means (in the glossary), or delving a little deeper for more details. We’ve also added some Wasteland.com original photos to each section just to make it a bit more visually pleasing to the eye.
And now a moan and scream from Raven Riley’s “Succubus”…
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SUCCUBUS, the first full length motion picture released by Wasteland Studios, features Raven Riley and Liz Vicious representing the forces of good and evil. Raven Riley, one of the most popular internet teen models, is the star of SUCCUBUS, and the story’s hero. Raven plays herself as a museum curator who discovers her family-owned land in Leeston, Indiana has been taken over and developed into a haunted theme park by Uncle Joey (played by Tom E. Motion). Raven is shocked to learn of the death of some of the local townspeople, and begins trying to try to get her land back, as well as solve the murders. Liz Vicious, the Internet’s most popular teen gothic hardcore model, plays Lilith. According to ancient legends, Lilith was the first wife to Adam and when she disobeyed him she was sentenced to forever walk the earth in demonic form. Lilith is accidentally unearthed and awoken, and begins a reign of terror throughout Leeston. In what can only be described as unreal and shocking, Raven Riley and co-star Kevin Baxter hunt Lilith and attempt to rid the World once again of the “vicious” means by which she takes her victims in a demonic sexual death trance.
Today’s Letter is “S”
Sadist – a person who derives pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering or humiliation on others. The word comes from the name of Donatien Alphonse Francois, compte de Sade, known as the Marquis de Sade (1740 – 1814). He was the author of several sexually explicit works which explored the darker side of sexuality and for which he spent much of his life imprisoned.
Safewords (safe signals) – are pre-arranged words or signals that can be used by a submissive in BDSM play to slow down or stop the action.
Safe, Sane and Consensual – a phrase commonly used to encapsulate the best principles of bdsm activity. It must be safe; you must not put people at emotional or physical risk. It must be sane; bdsm play is not the place to play out your neuroses because , in doing so, you can hurt people. It must be consensual; anything done to to a person without their consent shows at best a lack of respect and more often is abusive. Good guiding principles.
Safe Sex – is sex which does not impair the physical or emotional health of either partner, and involves precautions like wearing condoms, using denttal dams, being cafeful to protect yourself against blood, not taking part in any risky bdsm activities unless you know exactly what you’re doing and have your partners informed consent, and avoiding risky bdsm activites if you’ve been drinking or taking drugs.
Scat – is play involving faeces (shit); eating it, smearing it over things, being shit upon, etc.
Scene (sceneing) – bdsm activity between two or more people. Used as a noun, ‘scene’ is often used to describe the whole bdsm community or the many aspects of it you might come across, like ‘scene parties’ or ‘scene clubs’. It can also be used to describe an individual bdsm session, as in “I had a great scene with her last night”. It can also be used as a verb, as in “do you want to scene with me”, meaning do you want to have a bdsm session with me, or “she spends her life sceneing”. Used in this way, it is synonymous with the word ‘play’ .
Slave – in its traditional meaning is a person who is the legal property of another and is therefore forced to obey them. In bdsm, someone may adopt the role of slave for the duration of a ‘scene’ or play-session or they may enter into a long-term, structured D/s relationship in which they are owned as a ‘slave’ by a dominant ‘master’. The word ‘slave’ is also used fairly interchangeably with ‘submissive’ by some, although the words in fact have different meanings. Every slave is submissive, but every submissive is not a slave.
Slave Contract – is a formal document which may be agreed between a ‘master’ and his ‘slave’ setting out the nature and limits of their relationship.
Spanking – involves striking your partners buttocks with your hand or a sometimes a flat implement like a hairbrush or paddle. The most common position for spanking is ‘OTK’, or ‘Over The Knee’.
Spreader Bar – a bondage device, the spreader is a rigid bar of varying lengths, attached at the ends either to the wrists or ankles, which keeps the arms or legs apart and renders the submissive helpless.
St Andrews Cross – is an X-shaped crucifixion device usually made of wood. The submissive is tied or chained to the cross, either facing towards or away from it, depending on what you intend to do with her.
Sub Space – is a blissful and euphoric state reported by some submissives during bdsm play. Also called ‘bottom-space’, ‘flying’ or an ‘endorphin-high’
Submissive – is a person of either gender who submits to the will of a dominant, either for limited bdsm play or within a longer-term relationship.
Suction Cups – are cups which are placed over the breasts to create a partial vacuum inside, sometimes assisted by pumps. The tissue inside becomes engorged with blood and expands, increasing its sensitivity.
Succubus – A succubus is a demon or supernatural entity in folklore, in female form, that appears in dreams to seduce men, usually through sexual activity. According to religious traditions, repeated sexual activity with a succubus can cause poor physical or mental health, even death.
Suspension Bondage – is an advanced bondage technique in which the submissive is ‘suspended’ off the ground by means of ropes or other restraints.
Switch – is the name for a person who enjoys both the submissive and dominant roles at different times.
