This part of Wastelandblog.com is for anyone getting ready to take their first bite of the forbidden fruit. The world of bdsm can at times seem a bit scary, or silly, at first and while it can be both it isn’t always either. Sometimes it’s the way to intense and amazing experiences and relationships. If you’ve heard some bdsm expression that puzzles you, or you just want to browse a little, a good place to start is with our own ‘glossary of bdsm words’ and our ‘illustrated guide to bdsm’. These are helpful for quickly finding out what a word or expression means (in the glossary), or delving a little deeper for more details. We’ve also added some Wasteland.com original photos to each section just to make it a bit more visually pleasing to the eye.
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Today’s Letter is “B”
BDSM – originated on the internet as an all-inclusive term to bring together the distinct but related activities of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (D/s), and Sado-Masochism (SM).
Blindfolds – are devices which block vision and are used in BDSM play to create feelings of helplesness and disorientation.
Body Fluid Monogamy – involves both partners in a steady relationship deciding to share body fluids only with each other to avoid the risks of AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases, only having sex outside of the relationship by practicing strict safe sex.
Body Modification – is an inclusive term covering piercing, tattooing, and other practices which decorate or change the body for erotic or fetish purposes. Now often used in mainstream culture simply as a fashion statement rather than an indication of an alternative lifestyle.
Bondage – involves being rendered helpless by restraints. For many people, the knowledge that they are powerless, that someone else can do things with their body and they can’t prevent them, is a powerful turn-on. For others, the physical sensation of bondage feels erotic.
Boot Boy – is the name given to a submissive (usually gay) male who has a fetish for leather boots worn by dominants, and who often works at a leather bar or charitable event shining shoes. The conclusion to the shoe-shining may be oral service to the boots.
Bottom – is the word used in bdsm to describe a person who receives pain or sensation, and a ‘top’ is the person who gives it. There is no implied domination or submission. The term ‘bottom’ includes anyone who is on the receiving end of BDSM activities like bondage, corporal punishment, spanking etc. The words are sometimes also used as verbs ( as in to ‘top’ someone, or to ‘bottom’ for someone).
Bottom Space – is a euphoric state reportedly experienced by some ‘bottoms’ during BDSM play when they are receiving pleasure or pain, allegedly triggered by the release of endorphins. Also known as sub-space, endorphin-high, or ‘flying’.
Boundaries – are also called ‘limits’ , and are the personal lines that people dont wish, or aren’t prepared, to cross, for example refusing any activity that involves children, animals, bloodsports, ‘scat’, (shit), or any subject or situation which either the dominant or submissive finds frightening or repulsive.
Boy – is a term sometimes used for male submissives, which has a special meaning in gay leather culture where it may also refer to the submissive partner in a Daddy/boy relationship. The word is also used in lesbian culture to denote a male-identified (but biologically female) bottom.
Brat – describes a submissive or bottom who loves to resist and test the patience of the ‘tops’ or ‘dominants’. Being a brat generally involves role-play, with the ‘brat’ acting like a spoiled and wilful child.
Breast Bondage – is erotic play which involves binding the breasts tightly. Generally it involves restraints (rope, rubber etc) which encircle each breast tightly where it joins the chest. The breasts and nipples become engorged with blood and exquisitely sensitive to the slightest touch. Stroking, clamping, or whipping can cause intense pain and pleasure.
Breath control – usually involves the dominant partner controlling the breathing of the submissive. This can be done most easily when the submissive is bound or restrained, and it can involve pinching the nostrils or using other apparatus or materials to cover the mouth or nose for short periods.
Branding – is burning the skin with heated metal to produce scarification in a design or pattern. It is sometimes used as decoration or to signify ownership, as when a ‘master’ will brand his ‘slave’ to denote that she is his property.
Bullwhips – are arguably amongst the most dramatic implements available for BDSM play and can create intense psychological theatre. A typical bullwhip has a relatively short, rigid handle and a long flexible leather thong of varying lengths ranging from about 4-6 feet. The longer the whip, the harder it is to control.
Butt-Plugs – are used for anal training or play. The anus (ass-hole) is rich in nerve endings and many women as well as men find anal play as arousing as genital stimulation. Butt plugs are inserted into the anus and stretch the tight ring of anal muscle (the sphincter). By doing so they can, if used over time and with gradually increasing widths, prepare the anus for more adventurous or easier anal play. Alternatively, the sensation of being ‘filled’ may simply be enjoyed as an end in itself.
