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What To Do When Your Partner Has A Fetish That You Don’t Like?  

What To Do When Your Partner Has A Fetish That You Don’t Like?  

What To Do When Your Partner Has A Fetish That You Don’t Like?

Regardless of whether you’re into young studs, experienced women, or girls from the BBW dating niche, you’re bound to come across someone who has really odd sexual fetishes, at least once in your life.

However, what happens when you discover that the person who has a fetish that you don’t like is no one else but your partner? If you find yourself in this particular situation, here’s how you should deal with it.

Be Honest With Your Partner

Honesty should always be one of the main pillars of every relationship. This means that you have to be completely open with your partner so that you can prevent possible disagreements and overcome differences more easily.

Simply put, if your significant other enjoys a sexual fetish that you don’t like, you have to state that at the very beginning of your relationship. Otherwise, you might find yourself in a quite unpleasant situation that will probably only worsen with the passage of time.

Also, the chances are you will end up hurting your partner’s feelings which may jeopardize the future of your entire relationship.

Don’t Judge

We live in the 21st century, also known as the era of digital, social and economic advancements, meaning it’s essential to keep your mind open at all times if we want to live better and richer lives. It’s high time to accept that people are different and that different things arouse every single person out there.

Therefore, judging your partner’s kinkiness will only offend and hurt them. Find a way to accept them for who they are and try to understand the things that excite them sexually. This is the best way to deal with your partner’s fetish.

Don’t Dismiss The Fetish Right Away

It’s safe to say that there are some fetishes out there that would probably shock you and everyone you know.

However, if your lover has an unusual kink, it’s vital not to dismiss it right off the bat, no matter how weird it is. Even though there’s a strong possibility that you’ll feel overwhelmed and even repulsed, try to understand where this fetish comes from.

Sexual fetishes can be fun, and if you give them a chance, you might actually end up having the time of your life. If it turns out to be too weird for you, there’s always a safe word. Your partner will appreciate your effort, and commitment and everyone’s feelings will remain intact.

Try To Come Up With A Similar Fetish That Might Work For Both Of You

At the end of the day, if you can’t be a part of your partner’s favorite fetish, you can always sit down and have a heart to heart about other kinky things you might enjoy together.

Finding common ground and coming up with a new fetish both of you agree on is the best and safest way to enjoy kinky sex. However, in order to achieve that, you need to have an open and honest relationship. Keeping secrets from each other can ruin your sex life.

 

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Simon Blackthorne
Simon Blackthorne is a Dungeonmaster at Wasteland.com. With over 30 years experience as a MaleDom, he brings a wealth of experience, knowledge and wit to the BDSM scene. Simon was one of original directors and contributors to Wasteland starting in 1995 and is a respected leader in the New England BDSM community. You can see Simon's BDSM Video Demonstrations and Tutorials at Wasteland.com
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