Home / Instructional (page 4)

Category Archives: Instructional

Feed Subscription

Top 10 BDSM Terms You Should Know

Top 10 BDSM Terms You Should Know

When people ask if you are "into BDSM" or vise-versa, it's important to understand what they/you are really asking. Personally, even when I'm in a Vanilla type setting and I hit it off with someone and want to see if we would be compatible sexually, I ask if they know what BDSM means

Read More »

Another Course from the Master

Another Course from the Master

Just a typical day at work for Tyler and Master David. Today's lessons are spanking, paddling, rope tying and of course, blow jobs and fucking. David’s newest sub, Gia had been begging to be fucked all day, in her own words she wanted to be fucked “hard and fast”. Of course Tyler was more then happy to oblige.

Read More »

The Differences Between Professional Domination and Prostitution

The Differences Between Professional Domination and Prostitution

Professional Dominas charge for BDSM sessions. Be it submission training, humiliation, impact play, financial domination or other forms of power exchange, the ProDom is charging for services that rarely involve any sort of traditionally sexual activity. Escorts, on the other hand, charge for companionship and sex.

Read More »

Wasteland BDSM Periscope Broadcast #2

Wasteland BDSM Periscope Broadcast #2

As an experiment with that new thing on twitter, Wasteland broadcast behind the scenes and cameo footage yesterday to give our followers a peek behind the bdsm porn curtain. Although we had to only broadcast the opening sequences before the nudity and sex started (to avoid getting kicked off of Periscope), it was rather fun and we had a lot of viewers watching to see what we were up to on location. Take a peek! In this segment, Wasteland Dungeon Master and Shibari Master Shadrack and his slave do a little light romantic bondage! Enjoy! ABOUT PERISCOPE: According the the ...

Read More »

Wasteland Broadcasts Live On Twitter Periscope (Video)

Wasteland Broadcasts Live On Twitter Periscope (Video)

Wasteland broadcast behind the scenes and cameo footage yesterday on Periscope to give our followers a peek behind the bdsm porn curtain. In this segment, Wasteland Dungeon Master and Shibari Master Shadrack shows you how to do safe Shibari suspension, with a bit of historic and cultural information about this ancient Japanese erotic art form. Enjoy!

Read More »

Review: The Porn Dude lists the best porn sites

Review: The Porn Dude lists the best porn sites

The Porn Dude lists the best porn sitesEveryone knows that watching porn is an amazing way to get relaxed after a long, hard day of work. You come home, access your favorite porn site and enjoy some hot videos (and yourself) for as long as you want. The only problem with porn is finding variety and quality. There are so many websites out there, who borrow content from each other that you get to see the same content all over the internet. Most sites offer you the same video over and over again, spiced with a few extra moans and ...

Read More »

The Fabulous World Of FemDoms

The Fabulous World Of FemDoms

The Fabulous World Of FemDoms by Lola Lovely at Wasteland BDSM A quick Google search for “What is FemDom?” pulls up a bunch of misinformation, opinions and oddly enough a piece about how an 18 year old ‘kicked’ his femdon ‘habit’ for good. Not really much good information for a person genuinely looking into exploring this side of his or her sexuality – or even for those who are curious. If we were to rely on television or movies, well, we know how that goes. Anything that isn’t penis to vagina penetration is considered the realm of the unstable. It’s ...

Read More »

BDSM Article – Caning Technique

BDSM Article – Caning Technique

Caning Technique It requires remarkably little strength to deliver a memorable cane stroke. Think of it as a whip, not a stick. Think badminton, not tennis. Wrist alone (if your wrist is strong and supple) will be enough to satisfy many bottoms. Wrist and forearm combined suffice to deal an exhilarating cut. A wrist flick right at the end of the stroke can be devastating. Chastisers used to hold a book (try a Bible, if you’re very kinky) under their caning arms to limit the power of their strokes. A saber-stroke-style slash with shoulder, elbow, and wrist all fully involved ...

Read More »

Humor: So, You Want To Be a Dom?

Humor: So, You Want To Be a Dom?

A fun animated video about a guy that wants to be a Dom, but just doesn’t seem to get what that actually means!  A contribution from friend of Wasteland, “Libertine”. @LibertineVideo Script: © 2014 Libertine Video. So, What is a Dominant? (How to be a good Dominant) From “A Submissives Journey” Website Like the same question, what is a submissive, this is probably one of the biggest questions that is argued about in BDSM and Dominant submissive D/s relationships. Each person who has an interest in the lifestyle will undoubtedly have their own ideas about what makes a person dominant, ...

Read More »

BDSM Scene Profile – Mistress Arella

BDSM Scene Profile – Mistress Arella

Mistress Arella is a Czech pro and lifestyle Domme currently specializing in online arrangements. She studied International relations in Prague, later moved to London where she worked as a dominatrix for a few years. In 2010 she returned back to her home town but keeps traveling and looking for new slaves for her stable. We recently had the good fortune to be able to interview Mistress Arella recently about her philosophy and practices as a Domme...

Read More »

Weekly BDSM and Kinky Events Calendar

Weekly BDSM and Kinky Events Calendar

Compiled by Simon Blackthorne at Wasteland.com from the handy weekly roundup at Kinky.com Looking for events, classes and other venues to meet, beat and perhaps beat new bdsm friends?  Here’s the schedule of notable ones around the country for the last week of April. SoJ Presents: Contracts and Written Agreements in Hierarchical Relationships (April 27th – SF) Because trust is such a big deal the topic of consent, sometimes written contracts and agreements ensure that trust is bound — by more than just bondage. Society of Janus is offering a class that discusses those written contracts and how to deal with them within ...

Read More »

Bondage Rope Work Basics

Bondage Rope Work Basics

by Simon Blackthorne at Wasteland.com Rope: Available in many, many types, qualities, thicknesses, strength and colors. For safety and comfort reasons you need to know about ropes if you plan to enter into erotic bondage. So this article is about rope. Allow us to first of all put an end to the discussion about cotton rope versus synthetic rope (nylon, polyprop, etcetera). It is largely a matter of personal preferences and comes down to the basic preference for natural materials or synthetic materials. These are the realistic pros and cons: * Natural ropes (cotton, hemp, silk) simply require more maintenance ...

Read More »

BDSM Community – Are We A Culture?

BDSM Community – Are We A Culture?

Occasionally the BDSM and kinky community looks with a certain amount of envy at the gay community, as a result of the fact that the latter has achieved quite a bit when it comes to general understanding for and acceptance of different lifestyles. One of the questions, asked in this respect, is the one about being a culture yes or no. Although that as such is a question that can be debated endlessly, fact of the matter is that the narrow - sexual only - approach does not seem to cover all aspects of erotic power exchange. So, are "we" a culture? Below is at least one answer to that question.

Read More »
Scroll To Top