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Roles In BDSM: What Makes A Good Submissive?

Roles In BDSM: What Makes A Good Submissive?

As you probably know, some people like to be dominant and others enjoy being submissive. It really doesn’t matter if you’re in bed with a young woman, middle-aged man, or a gorgeous mature woman from the cougar dating scene; there will always be one side that is dominant and other that is submissive. If you enjoy being the latter, we suggest you stick around because we’re going to talk about the things you need to do if you want to be a great sub. Get on the Same Page with Your Partner Firstly, you need to have the talk with ...

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Is BDSM Healthy or Pathological?

Is BDSM Healthy or Pathological?

Let’s face it – BDSM and kink has been a regular part of everyday life for a while now. From group sex and swingers to BBW and transgender dating, being kinky isn’t as looked down on as it was, for example, two or three decades ago. However, there’s still some prejudice regarding the main honcho of the kinky world. BDSM, which stands for bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, and masochism is sometimes still being scrutinized as a condition rather than a sexual preference. In that name, let’s try to answer the question of whether BDSM is healthy or pathological. Subject ...

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Roles in BDSM: What Makes a Good Dominatrix?

Roles in BDSM: What Makes a Good Dominatrix?

If you’re reading this blog, chances are you’ve already heard of BDSM and a Dominatrix and know what it is. So, you probably have this idea of BDSM being as kinky as, for example, BBW dating, but also involving chains, whips, ropes, leather straps, gimp suits, and more. And while you wouldn’t be wrong to assume that, BDSM isn’t only limited to what we’ve mentioned above. On the contrary, there are quite a few important aspects of this sexual lifestyle, one of which suggests assuming roles in the goal of power exchange. That said, let’s take a quick look at ...

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Top 5 BDSM Podcasts You Have to Listen to

Top 5 BDSM Podcasts You Have to Listen to

Are you unsure whether BDSM is for you? Do you have a hard time determining if ropes, chains, and whips are going to suit you better than, for example, BBW dating? Were you thinking about becoming a dominatrix but didn’t really know where to begin? Luckily, these and all other BDSM-related questions can be easily answered – all thanks to podcasts. Podcasts are a great way to educate yourself on a number of topics while sometimes even laughing your ass off or listening to hot stories. This especially applies to BDSM podcasts, of which we’ve picked the top 5 you ...

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Can BDSM Help You Find Self Acceptance?

Can BDSM Help You Find Self Acceptance?

Absolutely – Everyone is kinky in some way – it’s just a matter of whether they explore their BDSM fantasies or push them under the rug. Out of all the kinky people we know, most have been raised in conservative households where sex was seen as something inappropriate. Mind you, even if your parents weren’t conservative per se, it’s more than enough if they never talked to you about sex to feel embarrassed or ashamed about fully exploring and accepting your sexual side. Regardless of whether you’re into transgender dating, which is often viewed as quite kinky, or want to ...

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BDSM Couples Therapy

BDSM Couples Therapy

Eventually, many people find themselves in a couples councilor’s therapy office trying to deal with issues that often stem from the bedroom. No matter what kind of a commitment you find yourself in, and whether you’re in a short-term or a long-term relationship with someone you met via a BBW dating site, there are bound to be bumps in the road. Today, we’d like to explore a different kind of couples counseling – BDSM therapy – that begins in the bedroom and eventually encompasses every element of a relationship. BDSM Therapy Session BSDM is used as a couples therapy technique ...

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The Future of BDSM: What Will It Look Like?

The Future of BDSM: What Will It Look Like?

Unlike gay and transgender dating which need to have whole movements behind them to be accepted by the society, the BDSM sexual preference is a whole different story. This “activity” doesn’t care if you’re straight, gay or into chicks with d***s – as long you’re willing to tie yourself or your partner with a rope or get slapped, you’re all good! But as it is with any popular trend, so is BDSM evolving every day. Not only are we seeing more and more people openly declare themselves as submissive or dominatrix nowadays but also the notable increase in a number ...

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Here’s Everything You Need to Know about Findom

Here’s Everything You Need to Know about Findom

When it comes to sex, we all love different things. The thing that gets you off probably doesn’t work for someone else, and vice versa. Some people love young partners, other prefer women from the cougar dating scene, and some individuals are drawn by more complex sexual fetishes. Therefore, we’re going to talk about one of the most popular and expensive sexual fetishes out there – the financial domination fetish or findom.   The Most Glamorous Fetish As you probably know, most sexual fetishes are considered dirty and demeaning, especially those that include dominance and submission. Findom, on the other hand, ...

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What Is Edging And How It’s Done Properly?

What Is Edging And How It’s Done Properly?

It doesn’t matter if you’re a young man in his prime or someone from the senior dating community, you’ve probably had your fair shares of premature ejaculations. Hey, there’s no need to be ashamed, it happens to every man on the planet! Besides erectile dysfunction, it’s probably the most common problem men experience in the bedroom. Now, a lot of guys are eager to try various medications that will allow them to last longer in bed, but they aren’t aware there is a cheaper and healthier technique that can help them postpone their orgasm. This technique is called “edging” and ...

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Submissive Training 101 – Cocksucking.

Submissive Training 101 – Cocksucking.

Goddess Starla is training Jada Sinn in the fine art of cock-sucking. Among the many talents she graces her slaves with, cocksucking seems to be her favorite. Starla is mesmerized by the slow, methodical penetration as her slick pink dildo struggles to fit down this Jada’s throat. Not satisfied, Goddess Starla goes off FemDom style and gives Jada a training session she will not soon forget. A wet and messy squirting romp through the dungeons of Wasteland. Watch The Cocksucking Training Movie Trailer… [jwplayer player=”1″ mediaid=”5838″] Photos From This Wasteland Original BDSM Training Film…   WATCH THE FULL FEATURE AND ...

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How to Find Her G-Spot: An Ultimate Guide

How to Find Her G-Spot: An Ultimate Guide

Sex is important to everyone – from all the people you see pretty much every day to those who browse biker dating sites. Those who have tried it know just how great it can be and how important it becomes if it’s performed by two partners rather than two strangers. Still, there are things related to sex that haven’t been mastered by everyone. While some men struggle with foreplay or are unable to last that long before climaxing, others have a problem finding a woman’s G-spot. There are still guys out there who believe that this is nothing more than ...

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New Sex Machine Feature – The Tremor

New Sex Machine Feature – The Tremor

We recently shot a featured new product video with The Tremor, starring Delirious Hunter and her partner, Joey. It came out so exciting we wanted to share the entire scene with you for free here on WastelandBlog.com! Enjoy the show!

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How to Introduce New Sex Toys in the Bedroom

How to Introduce New Sex Toys in the Bedroom

Even though it’s a common opinion, sex toys are by no means reserved for fetishists, BDSM folk and those who have transgender dating as their sexual preference. In reality, sex toys can and should be used by all because experimenting with them usually leads to amazing experiences. However, even people who do muster up the courage to possibly try bringing a sex toy into their sex life don’t really know how to do it properly. That’s why today we wanted to talk about a couple of examples of how to ease yourself and your partner into incorporating a sex toy ...

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Is It Non-consensual To Wake Up Your Partner With Oral Sex?

Is It Non-consensual To Wake Up Your Partner With Oral Sex?

When it comes to sex, pretty much anything goes if two people talk about it openly and honestly. The issue of consent is essential if they don’t know each other well or if they’re contemplating introducing something new into the bedroom. Today, we touch on popular male fantasy, being woken up by oral sex, and whether consent comes into play in any way. In most cases, the answer is pretty straightforward, and it doesn’t depend on the people or the situation. No, it’s not non-consensual to wake up your partner with oral sex. Further, singles who like to meet people ...

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What To Do When Your Partner Has A Fetish That You Don’t Like?  

What To Do When Your Partner Has A Fetish That You Don’t Like?  

Regardless of whether you’re into young studs, experienced women, or girls from the BBW dating niche, you’re bound to come across someone who has really odd sexual fetishes, at least once in your life. What happens when you discover that the person who has a fetish that you don’t like is no one else but your partner? If you find yourself in this particular situation, here’s how you should deal with it.

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